Raising Resilient Kids 5 Simple Tips Parents Can Use Today

Ever wondered why some kids confidently face challenges while others struggle with setbacks? The key is resilience - a skill that can be nurtured at home more easily than you think!

At BVIS Hanoi’s recent weekend workshop, Ms. Lena Perriam, Deputy Head of Secondary, shared practical ideas that parents can use to build resilience in their children. Here are five easy-to-apply tips you can start using today:

1. Embrace the magic word "Yet"

Next time your child says “I can’t do this,” encourage them to say, “I can’t do this yet!”
Why it works: It promotes a growth mindset, helping children believe that improvement is possible with time and practice.

2. Praise the journey, not just results

Celebrate effort, persistence, and improvement—not just final achievements.
Why it works: It encourages kids to keep trying, fostering perseverance.

3. Make mistakes a positive experience

Teach your child that mistakes mean they're learning new things.
Why it works: It builds confidence and reduces the fear of failure.

4. Create emotional openness

Encourage daily conversations about feelings and emotions.
Why it works: It teaches children to recognise, understand, and manage their emotions better.

5. Lead by example

Demonstrate resilience by handling your own stress positively.
Why it works: Kids learn best by watching and imitating trusted adults.

At BVIS Hanoi, resilience isn't just theory—it’s embedded in our everyday learning. Through dedicated pastoral care and student wellbeing initiatives, we partner with parents to raise confident, resilient learners who are ready for life's challenges.